Letters to a First-Time Mom – When You Feel Like You’re Not Enough

Here you are with a baby. There's a steep learning curve and you're figuring it out on the job, with less sleep than ever. It is easy to feel like you're drowning. It's easy to think you're failing. And it's easy to feel you're not enough. But I want you to remember you're doing the … Continue reading Letters to a First-Time Mom – When You Feel Like You’re Not Enough

Why “I don’t have” is a lie

Kids brushing teeth makes me crazy.

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There are so many parts of the whole teeth-brushing process that make me crazy, I don't even know if I can go into it without losing whatever good place I had in my heart when I sat down to tell you about it. But for the sake of the whole point, I'll tell you about it. If you have small kids, I'm pretty sure you know what I'm talking about, but if you don't, let me break it down for you.

First, brushing teeth is apparently a form of torment made bearable by bubblegum flavored goo. The resistance to the act of brushing teeth is akin to what I imagine the reluctance one may have if she is being marched into a churning sea by walking the plank. Repeat twice daily.

Unseasonable Beauty

Sometimes beauty pops up at the wrong time. Nobody told these daffodils that they weren't supposed to come up yet.  Nobody told them not to bloom.  They just did. We had a warm spell about 6 weeks ago, following a pretty hard cold snap.  These guys pushed through the ground around the beginning of January, really … Continue reading Unseasonable Beauty